my handle is my warning!!! don't read me if you have a problem with my posts!! Unless, as sadly it seems to be, certain people on this forum enjoy putting other people down in the NAME of health. Funny, to put people down in the name of mental health!!! What is funny, ironic, is that this is being done in the NAME of health for poor trigger-frequent people- of which I was once one- and what I learned- was that it was my problem and to WORK ON IT, not try and CONTROL other people. The initial post in this THREAD was about a terrible dream the person had and was only minimally more violent than the story I told. But I was jumped on- and people speaking for OTHER people- where are these mysterious wounded people? Let them speak for themselves, as I have learned to do! For me to be quiet is the WORST THING I could do for anyone on this board who is triggered by "- references". I am a trained counselor who has spent years working with the mentally ill of whom have severe issues and I can quite ably state that the people who are putting me down, using this as an opportunity to issue self-righteous statements about wounded people, are NOT coming from a place of health. A place of health is NOT "SHUT UP". I speak. don't read me!!! That simple folks!!! don't read me if you don't like my posts! Thank you!! Sincerely, -